Shakira Bapoo
Relationship, intimacy, sex & alternative lifestyle coaching.
Coaching for adults who want clearer communication, stronger boundaries, and a more honest intimate life. Practical frameworks. Direct conversations. No therapy positioning.
- Structure, clarity, accountability
- Consent-led communication and boundaries
- Values-based choices around intimacy and lifestyle
Relationships
Communication that actually works in real life: needs, expectations, repair, and decision-making.
Intimacy & sex
Consent, confidence, desire, and honest conversations—without shame and without performance.
Alternative lifestyle
Values, agreements, boundaries, and practical navigation when your relationship does not follow a script.
How I work
We identify the pattern, define the goal, build the skills, then review progress. Clear steps. No drift.
Clarify the pattern
What keeps repeating, what triggers it, and what it is costing you.
Set agreements
Boundaries, expectations, and what progress looks like in real terms.
Build skills
Communication tools, scripts, and weekly practices that fit your reality.
Review & adjust
Keep what works, change what does not, and stay consistent.
Books
If you prefer to start privately, begin with the books.
Reclaiming You
Boundaries, self-trust, and steadiness—practical, direct, and grounded.
Booking
WhatsApp only.
WhatsApp: +27 65 934 9855
Email: info@shakirabapoo.co.za
shakirabapoo2@gmail.com
Location: South Africa • Online sessions